Give Up My Baby

Most women today choose open adoption where they make an agreement with their child s adoptive parents to maintain contact and develop a lasting relationship.

Give up my baby.

No one gave up on him. When adoption is chosen it s because a mother believes she can give her baby whatever is needed to succeed placing her baby with a family who can provide what she cannot. Women often say give up my baby for adoption or put up my baby for adoption those words do not do justice to her sacrifice and gift of life and love. Years later i m glad we got to lean on each other in the months before the baby was born.

I did not give up or give away. At a moment in life when she may feel weaker than ever she shows courage by considering a life giving decision for her child despite what that may mean for her future. Even if he rejects the cup and cries for the bottle you should avoid giving a bottle or it will confuse him and make it harder to get him to give it up in the long run. Creating a new bedtime routine with stories extra cuddles and a new lovey can build a warm comforting environment that makes the transition easier for your child.

The assumption is that if you are willing to give your child up you must lack empathy or mental health or some other important quality. Giving up my baby was hard but they were there for me all the way. Thank you so much for support you have given me though this time of need. One of the reasons to give your baby up for adoption is that you may simply not feel strongly connected to the pregnancy you re carrying and that s okay.

I was kind of upset when i got home from the hospital but i think with time it will get easier. I placed my birth son. Reread the definitions of give up and. Next time you are speaking with a member of an adoption circle try to remove give up from your vocabulary.

Because of this it s crucial that when a pregnant woman is looking for information about how to give up her baby she receives correct information about the process of making. All adoption plans are unique because the people involved birthparents children and adoptive parents have varying needs and desires. I gave my baby more. If that s the case take heart knowing you are not giving up your baby.

If an expectant mother says i am thinking about putting my child up for adoption it is showing that she desires to make a plan for her child. Love and prayer surrounded him before he was born.